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Being Enough in a Striving World

In a world that constantly demands perfection and conformity, it’s easy to lose sight of our true worth. We often find ourselves striving to meet unrealistic standards, seeking validation from others, and neglecting our own well-being. Rather than focusing on what truly brings joy and wellness to our lives, we get stuck between deadlines, material goals, or the next new fad diet. But what if we paused for a moment and recognized that we are already enough?

I’ve always wanted to emphasise the importance of embracing ourselves, cultivating meaningful relationships, connecting with nature, and achieving a healthy work-life balance. After all, you cannot be expected to do all the awesome things you’re capable of if your mental and physical energy is constantly being used to power another part of your life. There’s no need to be afraid to let go of the pressures that hold us back and start thriving in your own unique way, even if everyone else around you is still following the status quo.

Letting go of perfectionism and judgement

Perfectionism is an unattainable ideal that can lead to chronic dissatisfaction and self-criticism. Embracing imperfection is the key to personal growth and self-acceptance. Consider two people (one perfectionist and one “imperfectionist”) trying to achieve the same habit of going on a walk every day. What happens when they miss a day due to being sick or having other commitments? Well, the perfectionist will think, “Oh well, I’ve failed now and that means I’m not perfect and will never achieve my goal. No more walks for me”. On the other hand, the imperfectionist will think, “Dang, I missed a day, but it’s okay! I can walk again tomorrow because one day of imperfection doesn’t have to stop me from achieving my goal”. See the difference?

Understand that you don’t have to meet everyone’s expectations or fit into society’s mould. Embrace your “flaws”, learn from your mistakes, and allow yourself to grow at your own pace. Release the fear of judgement from others and remind yourself that their opinions do not define your worth.

Cultivating meaningful relationships

One of the greatest sources of happiness and support in life comes from nurturing meaningful relationships. Whether it’s an individual friend, a family member, or a larger community, these interpersonal connections are what will bring you the truest and deepest joy and support throughout your whole life. Surround yourself with people who uplift and inspire you, and who will support and encourage you in your endeavours without judgement in the face of struggles or failures.

Focus on quality rather than quantity when it comes to friendships and partnerships; “the more, the merrier” does not apply in this case! Having dozens of social commitments every month that you don’t really enjoy will never be as fun as having a few key moments with company that makes those moments truly special. Authentic connections provide a sense of belonging and acceptance, reminding us that we are valued for who we truly are. Invest time and effort into building and maintaining these connections, as they can greatly enhance your overall well-being. For instance, you could arrange a weekly catch-up for a walk, a cafe visit, or even a phone call with those you are closest to, so you can check in, talk, and laugh together regularly.

Achieving work-life balance

Balancing work and personal life can be a constant challenge, especially since it may seem that the consequences of missing work or falling behind will be dire. However, it’s essential to find equilibrium to avoid burnout and maintain your overall well-being. Set clear boundaries between work and leisure time. Yes, that includes having to do the scary thing of telling people “no” sometimes, but like every tricky thing in life, it becomes easier with practice and has so many potential benefits to your mental headspace.

Prioritise self-care, family, and hobbies alongside your professional responsibilities, instead of picking which ones to prioritise after all your work is done. Remember that productivity isn’t solely measured by the number of hours spent working, but also by the quality and impact of your efforts. If you improve your work-life balance, you’ll actually create a positive cycle because the more mental well-being and health you achieve, the better quality time you can dedicate to your work when needed! By creating a healthy work-life balance, you’ll be able to cultivate a more fulfilling and satisfying life.

Overcoming burnout and prioritising well-being

In today’s fast-paced world with never-ending demands, burnout has become all too common. We often push ourselves to the limit, neglecting our physical, mental, and emotional well-being. It’s crucial to recognize the signs of burnout and take proactive steps to prevent it. According to Darling Downs Health in QLD, symptoms of burnout can be physical, mental, and behavioural. Physically, you might find yourself consistently feeling fatigued, getting sick, or experiencing headaches and stomach aches. Mentally, you may have decreased motivation, a sense of failure and self-doubt, or feelings of helplessness and cynicism. Behaviourally, you may be procrastinating, achieving less than usual in common tasks, or may be prone to outbursts.

With how common experiencing burnout has become, many people going through it likely do not know how to reverse its effects. Try to set healthy boundaries, practice self-care, and make time for activities that bring you joy and relaxation. Other ways to battle burnout include reaching out to others (more on that later!), nourishing your creativity, and setting time aside for mood-boosting physical activity, meals, and sleep. Remember, taking care of yourself is not selfish; it’s essential for a sustainable and fulfilling life.

Reconnecting with nature

In our increasingly digital world, it’s easy to lose touch with the natural world around us. This goes hand-in-hand with the burnout we were talking about before. Most work these days is done on technology where our brains are constantly stimulated with notifications and information overload, and this requires us to be inside and away from nature.

Spending time outdoors and immersing ourselves in nature can have profound benefits for our mental and physical health. It has been linked to increased feelings of happiness and well-being, improved attention, reflection, and creativity, and decreased likelihood of mental distress. Some studies (done by John Zelenski, a psychology professor at Carleton University in Ontario) even suggest that being in nature makes us kinder to other people, animals, and the world around us! So take a walk in the park, hike in the mountains, or simply sit by a serene lake. Engaging with nature not only provides a break from the hustle and bustle of everyday life but also fosters a sense of awe, wonder, and gratitude for the world we inhabit.

If you take nothing else from this article, remember this: you are enough, just as you are. Embrace your uniqueness, release the need for perfection, and let go of the judgements and expectations of others. Prioritise your well-being, build meaningful relationships, reconnect with nature, and strive for a healthy work-life balance. It’s time to shift from merely surviving to truly thriving. Embrace your journey, celebrate your accomplishments, and remember that you are deserving of happiness, love, and fulfilment. You are enough, and it’s time to start living like it.


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